Magdalen (33), Söderhamn, escort tjej

Brigham

Some may label me a 'bitch'. I'd like to claim its b/c I'm out of the dating loop. I was in LTR for 5 years. This is first guy I started dating.

Chequered

So me (23) and (Lets just call him John) John (25) have been dating for almost 7 months now. We have an amazing connection and we are both getting to the point where we are starting to see long term things with eachother. Planning road trips and holiday plans to meet the family, etc. Here’s where the problem is; for the past 4 months this girl named “Janet” has called his phone about once a month around 1-2am. The first two times this has happened he staright up told her that she cnt call him late anymore because he’s seeing me. So apparently this woman knows who i am and what me and him have. After the convo ended i politely asked who that was and he said she was a really good friend that he met on an astrology blog about a year ago. Theyve never met and she lives milessss away in another state. It bothered me but i let it slide because im not the type of gf to just say that he cant have female friends. I DID however tell him that she cant call after midnight because thats ****ing weird...he agreed. Lets fast forward to today...she’s called 5 times now and theyve all been after midnight. He talks to her for a second and then tells her again that she cant call that late. Last weekend he put her on speakerphone when she called at 2:30 am. She had a problem with the fact that im asking her not call that late and he told her that he agrees with me. Me and him have had two small arguments about this and he’s basically saying that they talk about 2 times a week and its not always at night. I want to trust that this is nothing because me and him are doingn so well and she knows who i am but if theyre just friends then why is it so hard to do what i ask? Should i be concerned with their relationship? What should i do if she calls him late again?

Billi

You dodged a bullet. and 8 months is WAY too long to be giving a woman like this any headspace.

Caribi

OMG I wish I could see more!